I wrote in the original Change Is Hard AF essay that "๐๐ก๐๐ง๐๐ฉ๐ฎ ๐๐๐ฃ ๐๐ ๐ฅ๐๐๐ฃ๐๐ช๐ก ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ฉ๐ง๐ช๐ฉ๐ ๐ค๐๐ฉ๐๐ฃ ๐๐ง๐๐ซ๐๐จ ๐ฅ๐๐ค๐ฅ๐ก๐ ๐ข๐๐" and I think for those reasons, people are reluctant to evolve and test their character as they move through life.