Survival is a badge you earn but that doesn't mean you can use it to judge others as weak. Surviving is a choice. It's not a default setting. Your reality is not everyone's reality.
I can always tell people who game and people who don't. I can't always tell people who have worked in a party system, especially one with strangers, and who hasn't. Learn your class.
I think one of the fundamental differences between people who are considered neurodivergent or who have high functioning ADHD or other neurodifferences is foreground processing and hyper-awareness of that processing.
Social media is not life. It's a VERSION of life people choose because it's easier, it makes you feel like you have more control than in real life, and it makes you feel more brave when you want to do awful or very abnormal things.
Something that I don't think many people realize is that just because you're not "happy", doesn't mean then your only option is depression. ๐ฟ๐๐ฅ๐ง๐๐จ๐จ๐๐ค๐ฃ ๐๐จ๐ฃ'๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ค๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ค๐จ๐๐ฉ๐ ๐ค๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐ฃ๐๐จ๐จ. ๐๐๐ ๐ค๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ค๐จ๐๐ฉ๐ ๐ค๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ง๐๐จ๐จ๐๐ค๐ฃ ๐๐จ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐.
I give everyone one chance to show me who they are ... and I believe them. I blame no one for their trauma but I do blame them for deciding to spread it to others and drag innocent people into their darkness. No one deserves that and I don't abide it.
Growing up in the late 70's and 80s my world was so small. I could never have imagined there were people like me out there in the wider world. There was no wider world.
I grew up in a household of people who never saw me as a person, as something with a heart and soul of my own. At this point being ME is one of the most important things to me.
