Being on social media is not unlike the abusive, gaslighting, negative environment that I grew up in. My life hasn't really changed at all in that regard.
I grew up in a household of people who never saw me as a person, as something with a heart and soul of my own. At this point being ME is one of the most important things to me.
They say it costs nothing to be kind, but kindness is actually quite expensive. It costs a lot for many people who barely have enough to spare for themselves.
๐๐๐๐ง๐ ๐๐จ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช๐ง ๐ฌ๐ค๐ช๐ฃ๐? ๐๐๐๐ง๐ ๐๐จ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช๐ง ๐๐๐๐ง? ๐๐๐ฎ ๐๐ค ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐ ๐ช๐จ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฎ, ๐ผ๐ง๐๐ช๐, ๐ฟ๐๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ญ๐ฅ๐ก๐๐๐ฃ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช๐ง๐จ๐๐ก๐ โฆ instead of just admitting that you are a victim of a system that we ALL (no matter what race or culture or gender) have been subjugated, changed, and indoctrinated into.
Actors are people. Singers are people. They never stop being people. They have dreams, desires, and feelings. Fans, however, are sick AF and need therapy.
Focusing on SELF isn't inherently negative. Don't let anyone convince you of that nonsense. That's THEIR EGO and their SELFISHNESS trying to suppress you and CENTER themselves.