Being a slave with no freedom is TRAUMATIC. Being brainwashed is TRAUMATIC. Being groomed on lies and false hope is TRAUMATIC. Stop hating others who make time for self care.
They say it costs nothing to be kind, but kindness is actually quite expensive. It costs a lot for many people who barely have enough to spare for themselves.
No one is blaming ANYONE for having privilege. What people are asking is that you realize you have, and benefit from, privilege regularly and that judging other people from a position of privilege is gross and ignorant.
𝙒𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙬𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙? 𝙒𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙛𝙚𝙖𝙧? 𝙒𝙝𝙮 𝙙𝙤 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙅𝙪𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙛𝙮, 𝘼𝙧𝙜𝙪𝙚, 𝘿𝙚𝙛𝙚𝙣𝙙 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙀𝙭𝙥𝙡𝙖𝙞𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 … instead of just admitting that you are a victim of a system that we ALL (no matter what race or culture or gender) have been subjugated, changed, and indoctrinated into.
Actors are people. Singers are people. They never stop being people. They have dreams, desires, and feelings. Fans, however, are sick AF and need therapy.
If you can't look within ... if you can't reign you anger in ... if you can't recognize your own trauma ... then you will probably only ever inflict trauma on others. You have to start with SELF.