To constantly need to be validated for what should be primarily internal strength and energy means very little that you do will have meaning until someone else decides it does which is very destructive.
The puritanical and capitalist brainwashing and grooming (yes grooming) that has lead people to believe that being idle is bad has lead to so many mental, physical and spiritual issues in the world we live in.
I have NO patience for people who hate on those who experience luck and opportunity or benefit from privilege, or variance. I also have NO patience for people who believe everything they have achieved is solely because of hard work and nothing to do with luck, privilege, or variance.