boundaries

Understanding AS Avoidance

August 18, 2023

The more you you accept other people's terrible and unhealthy treatment of you and others … the more scars you're willingly accepting that don't even BELONG to you …

On Boundaries

Essays

February 6, 2023

I’m not a person who holds grudges though people have accused me of this – my parents especially – but...

Who Are You?

If 10 people hate you and only 3 people like you ... which ones are wrong about you and which ones are right about you? Or all they all right about you and simply just have different levels of bias or transference towards you based on aspects of you that they themselves cannot see clearly? Their reality where you exist is different from other people's realities where you exist. To someone you are a friend, to someone else you're the Devil, and still to someone else you're just simply invisible.

Elaine Barlow - December 17, 2022