Focusing on SELF isn't inherently negative. Don't let anyone convince you of that nonsense. That's THEIR EGO and their SELFISHNESS trying to suppress you and CENTER themselves.
There is always a handful of people who think that negativity is some inevitable thing that must be endured or else you're not strong. Wanting peace and choosing positivity isn't weakness, it's wisdom.
In general, my vibe is always about the beauty, positivity, innovation, and artistic value in things. Being judgy, pessimistic, negative, and unimaginative about the world is not a thing I'm into. Keep it to yourself.